March 20, 2026

478. Why Your Podcast Script Sounds Stiff (and How to Fix It)

478. Why Your Podcast Script Sounds Stiff (and How to Fix It)

Why do podcast scripts feel stiff, even when you know exactly what you want to say? In this episode, we talk about the difference between writing for the page and speaking for the ear, and why that matters for how you sound. I share simple tips with the PMC cast and crew to help you loosen up, like reading your script out loud, adding pauses and inflection, keeping your wording simple, and using outlines instead of sticking to a word-for-word script. We also get into tools like teleprompters and AI, plus a few easy ways to practice so you can feel more confident and connect better with your audience, and we wrap things up with community wins, celebrating progress, personal milestones, and the reminder to keep showing up and give yourself grace as you grow.

Episode Highlights:

[00:04] Why podcast scripts sound stiff and what we’ll cover

[06:11] Writing for the page vs writing for the ear

[08:13] Knowing your message instead of just reading words

[11:51] Reading scripts out loud to improve delivery

[13:33] Rewriting scripts to match how you actually speak

[16:49] Using pauses, pacing, and inflection to sound human

[19:11] Marking up scripts for emphasis and natural flow

[24:00] Using outlines instead of full scripts for flexibility

[32:42] Using AI to turn scripts into conversational delivery

[39:30] Weekly wins: celebrating progress, growth, and community

[42:18] Giving yourself grace and learning through mistakes

[50:42] Personal wins and meaningful moments to close the week

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Today is Friday, March 20th,
2026.

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And today, why your podcast
script sounds stiff and it's not

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you.
How to write for real

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conversation and loosen up your
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Now also the last thing I want
to share with you before we dive

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into script reading discussions,
I wanted to preview Monday

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because Monday we are taking the
week off of our Obsession Worthy

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podcast series.
We'll be doing that again March

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30th.
It will return, but next week

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we're going to bring in a new
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probably also alternate on
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Ralph, you want to tell us a
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going to do this Monday?
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talk about the one money mistake
that I've found working with

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creators that will absolutely
destroy your business.

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So don't forget to tune in on
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Awesome.
We will do that.

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And I'm sure we'll end up
sharing other things, other

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reasons why you can have that
struggle there, if not just this

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one.
I'm sure we have many more we

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could probably list.
But looking forward to hearing

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what your number one money
mistake is, Ralph.

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Yeah.
And listen, if you are new

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podcaster or new to content
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that this will be really
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And of course, if you are
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I think that this will also be
important to you too 'cause you

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may not know what these mistakes
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So come join us this Monday,
7:00 AM Eastern.

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I'll be there as well, of
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And Ralph will help lead the
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guy.
OK, let's get into the mailbag.

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Technically this I found
actually from the Riverside

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Facebook group coming from Shane
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He said let's talk teleprompter
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I've only ever produced
interviews on my podcast and now

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I need to start mixing things up
with 10 minutes solo episodes.

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What advice do you have for a
podcaster who would like to go

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scripted solo and use the
teleprompter function?

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We can get into some of the
teleprompter stuff, but I think

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where I really would like to go
with this is really talking

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about if you're going to work
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teleprompter or something else,
I think that there are proper

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techniques to doing that.
And we happen to have had a

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story for the news on Wednesday
that we didn't get to, and we

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were going to have Ralph share
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So I think Ralph, the best bet
would be let's let's go to you

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and get into that story and then
we'll get into the discussion.

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Go ahead.
Yeah, very good.

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I want to bring this quick
story.

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I think it's going to hit a
nerve for a lot of us.

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I know when I read this, it
really hit a nerve for me.

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If you've ever listened back to
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why do I sound like I'm reading
this is for you now, This was a

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piece published by DW Academy.
And the core idea, this was

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simple.
Most podcast scripts sound stiff

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because they're written for the
page, not for the ear.

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I want to say that again,
because it's really important

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that we all understand that
you're not struggling because

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you're a bad speaker.
You're struggling because you're

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writing like a writer, not a
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And those two are very different
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Here's what they pointed out in
the article, and I see this all

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the time, and I'm ointing this
at me because I've dealt with

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this very situation myself.
When we write for the page, we

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have longer sentences, our
language is usually more formal,

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and the structure is more rigid.
But all of us will relate to the

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fact that when we speak
naturally, we use shorter

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thoughts, we repeat ourselves,
we pause and we emphasize.

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But more importantly than any of
those things, we sound human.

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So, you know, many of us think
that when we start to monetize

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and we start to get more
interested in this, we think,

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well, I need to sound more
professional.

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I found myself in this very
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So what do we do?
We tighten up, we script even

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harder.
We, we Polish the life out of it

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is what the article said.
And I thought that was great.

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And that's the moment that we
become less engaging.

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So Mark, we can open it up to
questions, but I have some

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ideas, some practical fixes.
But has anyone else felt the

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same tension?
Speaking for myself, this has

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been a struggle for me because I
really, I use a prompter like

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Mark talked about.
And I really wanted to script

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everything out.
And what I found is when I

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stopped doing that, I connected
more with my audience.

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Now I've hired a speaking coach
like I've shared on the show,

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and that's really helped a lot.
But just the idea of the pauses.

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But anyway, I want to open up
the floor to other people who

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had comments and I come back
with some ideas that I came up

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with how to overcome this.
Awesome.

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Yeah, I want to.
I have several ideas here, and I

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see several people want to chime
in as well, so I will bite my

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tongue for the moment.
Actually, you know what?

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Let me share one and then I'm
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in that order.
One thing that I have taught

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myself is this idea of knowing
what I mean, not just what's on

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the page, right?
So if I know the point I'm

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trying to make, I'm much less
likely to sound like I'm just

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reading words, right?
So yeah, I'll stop there for

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now.
But I think it's really

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important to remember that you
really have to understand what

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it is you're trying to
communicate and not just

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regurgitate what you're reading
on the screen or on a piece of

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paper.
All right, Alex, I'm coming to

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you.
Good morning.

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Hey, how you doing?
That was kind of what I was

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going to say, but at the end of
the day, read what you've

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written over and over again.
I think a lot of times people

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and especially we've gotten very
lazy with ChatGPT.

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Oh, I'm just going to put it in
there and then I'm just going to

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read what it says.
Well, good speakers know how to

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pivot and good speakers know
like I love the outline or just

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bullet points and what I've
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I've done this for years in
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I might have a script, I'm going
to read it, read it, read it

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until it I've exhausted it.
But then that first reading of

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what I'm doing and what I'm
actually saying are probably 2

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totally different things.
Because I've added, like Ralph

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said, you know, you add those
pregnant pauses, you add the

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different words, you put your
personality into it and that's

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where it really gets fun.
And I really do believe that

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works.
And there is a lot to be said.

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When you do stumble, take that
that pause.

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Yep.
Remember, and I, I say this

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with, with the instructors that
I teach for my, my business,

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they don't know what you're
going to say, right?

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So they don't know what you're
going to say if you miss

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something.
It's not a big mess.

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So I, I mean, those are a couple
of things.

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I know other people have other
things, so I'll let them go.

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No, thank you.
I appreciate those points, Alex.

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Yeah, I think the key for me is
reading it out loud before I

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record.
Now I think most of you know,

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for the most part I don't script
a lot on this show.

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And where I always script is
that intro in the beginning with

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the music right now, most of
that I know by heart because I

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say most of it all the time,
every day, five days a week,

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right?
But the, the meat of it, the

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what's to come on this episode
that I always have scripted

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because I'm working on the
timing and the delivery of what

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I'm saying.
I'm doing it with the music, OK.

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And I've talked about this
before.

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I like to time it so that I,
what it's called in the

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industry, hit the posts, right?
That's where in the song you

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might hear a little extra drum
beat, right?

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I'm sorry, I'm not a musician,
so I don't know like the

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terminology of that.
But you know, you'll hear a

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little drum beat or you'll hear
those vocals early on in the

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intro where it's where they go,
right?

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I pause at that point.
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timing all of this to stay.
I read my scripts out loud

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before I hit record.
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Mark, I do want to say one thing

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about this and then I know you
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Scripting does not need need to
be stiff and that you just made

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a great point there.
As a podcaster, you want to

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create the right moment and you
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So 1, you have the best clips as
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answers.
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scripting and timing.
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something that people just
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figure it out method.
So what Ralph said in the

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beginning, a lot of times just
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scripted.
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what scripting means, but I'm
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I've been on podcasts where it's
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You have to say what you you
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And that's a pain in the butt,
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I agree.
There's a lot between New York

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and California.
There's a lot in between, so to

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speak.
Yeah, and you know, for me,

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reading it out loud a few times
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also builds that muscle memory,
which helps prevent those

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stumbles and mistakes, right?
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ChatGPT, here's what my show is
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And again, reading it out loud,
I really want to emphasize that

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point because reading it in your
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those neuro pathways.
It's not building that muscle

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memory though the same way,
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It makes a huge difference.
OK, BC you're next.

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Good morning.
What's up?

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Yeah, I agree with everyone so

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far with Alex and Ralph talking
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you're talking about, it can
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don't have that and especially
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days in broadcast radio.
For those who are not from the

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industry, you know, if you're
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commercial spot, you're probably
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written by somebody who sold the
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don't right for you.
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to do as the on air talent is
you get to rewrite the scripture

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provided to fit your stylistic
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when you do deliver that spot on
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you are and you deliver it.
You hit the main points and it's

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a good selling point.
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would we script things out and
if an in an instance where we

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don't take the chance to rewrite
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sometimes happens is that when
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formal stylistic sentences, we
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single sentence does not have to
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into thinking, oh, I've got to

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try to take one breath, deliver
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performative attempt at
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of monotone or robotic sound.
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just because something's written
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apply our own pacing to it, our
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own swell, its own cadence so
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down again on on familiarity
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If you don't read it beforehand,
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monotone because you got no idea
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Even if you gave Chachi BT a
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you what you were asking for,
but you still have to make sure

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you understand how that story is
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flow.
If you don't, you're, you know,

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you're asking yourself to kind
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product.
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unless you're in a live
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pause in the middle of your
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section, practice each section
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microphone.
You don't have to run all the

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way through and recording
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you or a team will take care of
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practice moments.
Also, I'll add it from for

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myself personally, I also deal
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I'm not sure if I've mentioned
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I deal with a speech issue
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related to stuttering.
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of getting caught on the
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will leave out or replace sounds
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belong.
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English phrases can be difficult
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because I will just confuse or
try to run through what I'm

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trying to say and my
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just fly out the window.
So love the topic though.

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So far, that's my Ted talk.
BC thank you.

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Yeah, I can tell you love the
topic.

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Yeah, thank you for all of those
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I was taking notes as quickly as
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things you said that I wanted to
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The thing about inflections, I
think that is so key, right as

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especially when we're talking
about practicing, because again,

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if you're reading it just in
your head for practice, you may

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not be thinking about the way
that it's actually coming out of

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your mouth.
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practice and then I do read from
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from the script, right?
Like it, there is an obvious

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difference because where I would
normally put the inflections on

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certain words, I, I forget to do
that because I'm just reading

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word for word, word for word,
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So I appreciate you sharing
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And then I also appreciate you
sharing the idea of recording

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while you're practicing.
And even if it's not an

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intentional practice, but you,
let's say you're reading from

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your script, you stumble, you
fall a couple of times and

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you're, and then you say, oh,
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You hit stop.
You start over, hit record

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again.
I know that this might seem

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obvious that you can just keep
recording all the way through,

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but the reality is it's not
obvious to a lot of people.

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I had a call with a client
that's launching a podcast

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earlier this week.
It's actually 2, two people.

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And that was one of the things
that I, I reminded them, I said

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to them, you know, listen, don't
worry because we did a practice

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run together and I said, don't
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If you mess up, just stop for a
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You could maybe acknowledge, Oh,
we're, let's edit that out,

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right?
Because I'm do, my company's

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doing the editing for them.
So it it could be a queue for

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them to tell the editor, but
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of sentences and and then just
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And I could see the light bulbs
and they explained the light

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bulbs are going off for them.
Like, oh, yeah, I can do that.

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Oh, that's right.
OK, cool.

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You know, so it's important to
call out some of these things

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because what we might think is
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All right, I know we still have
Dr. and BC wants to chime back

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in.
Ralph wants to chime in, but I

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saw and Tide wants to chime in
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I'm going to go to Yeah.
And Sid, that's exactly who I

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was going to next.
I'm coming to you, Sid, and then

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I will figure out the rest of
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Go ahead.
Good morning.

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Thanks, Mark.
Good morning, everybody.

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The only thing that I'll add to
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episodes where I do use the
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it from the printed paper.
I have a red pen and I am

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circling and underlining things
of how I want to like change

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things or I want to make a space
and I'll put a note like space

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and then I go into my computer
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reorganize it.
So to the point earlier about

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long run on sentences, the way
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sentences, the way that we
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put it on three or four
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having the script in front of me

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that I'm pausing, I'm
emphasizing I might put

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something in parentheses that I
want to add Lib to there and not

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script if it's a topic that I'm
really comfortable with.

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edit the script so it still

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doesn't look like an article or
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And that's my cue when I am.
Recording to make those

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intentional pauses to change it
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So that that helps me a lot to
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it.
Yeah, I think thank you, Sid.

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I think that goes back again to
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I was talking about earlier when
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And I love what you're saying,

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you know, creating that physical
form and then going in and

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writing notes and crossing
things out and circling things.

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It's helping your brain get to
know the script so that it does

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sound more natural when it's
coming out of your mouth.

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help you sound more natural is

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taking out the words that you
don't normally say, but you

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would write.
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'Cause there there are words you
will write that you won't

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necessarily say, so be sure you
take those out and change it

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into a word that you would say.
Oh, yeah, I'm with you there.

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All right, DRI Know you've been
waiting so patiently.

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Go for it.
OK, so this is one of those

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skills that podcasters really
need to add to their list.

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And I encourage everyone, if you
do not have the ability to read

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off of a page and sound as
though it's not on the page,

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that it's coming from your
heart, that it's coming from

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your head, that it's impromptu.
If you do not have that ability,

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then please seek out a coach or
seek out some local acting

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lessons.
Number one, you're going to have

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a blast when you go to acting
lessons.

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And #2 it will bring out in you
some stuff that you never

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thought you had.
So that's, that's my #1 tip.

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I mean, I went through when I
was a kid, I did a ton of

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musical theater.
I was involved in a in a acting

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Conservatory when I was a kid
that's very prominent in the San

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Francisco Bay Area ACT.
So yeah, if you don't have that

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ability, then get a coach or
better yet, go to acting

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classes.
Yeah, I'm with you there.

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And look, I am not technically,
by trade, a speech coach, but I

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do this all the time with
podcasters.

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And I hope you can hear my
passion about this and my

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knowledge about this stuff.
I'm happy to work with anybody

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if that is something of interest
to them.

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And there are some people that
have it in them already without

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the coaching, without the acting
classes.

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There are those people who have
that ability, but you just have

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to be honest with yourself.
And if you don't have that

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ability then please speak out
some help.

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And it's one that anyone can
learn.

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I agree with you that it's more
natural for some people.

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I feel like for me it's it was
just a more natural thing.

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And I've been doing this for 20
years, right.

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So like I, I've gotten
comfortable doing this.

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But yeah, I, I great points DRI
appreciate you chiming in there.

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By the way, I just want to say
hello to our live audience on

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clubhouse.
We've Hi Greg, Dave, Austin,

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Tim, Chris, Mike, John,
Christina, Jen, Roy Field and

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Anne.
Thank you all for being here

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this morning.
Great to have you in the room on

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a Friday.
And remember this is just a

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reminder later in the show, we
are sharing our wins from this

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past week.
So if you have some wins, which

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I think everybody must have at
least one come bring it later in

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the show.
So, and if you don't start

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thinking about it right, Alex,
do you have something real

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quick?
Because then I want to go to

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00:23:46,360 --> 00:23:48,080
Nikki.
Yeah, I do.

422
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,840
I think one of the other things
you might want to dovetail off

423
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,640
of what Dr. said, think about
like organizations like

424
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:57,720
Toastmasters you can do online
versus in person and you might

425
00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:01,320
get some more listeners.
Yeah, I'm with you there.

426
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,040
And actually thank you for
bringing that up because I was

427
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,560
really challenged, You know,
when we talk about Toastmasters,

428
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,360
right, Toastmasters is helping
you with your public speaking

429
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:16,240
abilities and skills.
And I was really challenged.

430
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,960
If you don't remember to figure
out how I was going to prepare

431
00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:22,520
without a script for my first
solo presentation at Podfest

432
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,360
earlier this year.
And I found this is what and I,

433
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:31,600
yes, I had somebody who I could
talk to.

434
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:36,040
I had a coach Sean, who is
Simona's better half or a

435
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,560
significant other is probably
better.

436
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,640
She, I think she's probably the
better half anyway, Sean, he

437
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,560
gave me overall guidance.
But as far as like the nitty

438
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:49,440
gritty, that was all on me.
And what I found worked best was

439
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:55,320
that I dumped out all of my
ideas to ChatGPT, all of my

440
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:59,440
intentions, all of my goals.
And then I had it actually write

441
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,240
a script for me, even though I
knew I was not going to use that

442
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:06,440
script, but it was something
that I could first dig my teeth

443
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,440
into, right?
I could, I read it a bunch of

444
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,320
times.
I read it out loud several

445
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:14,440
times.
I was again, creating that

446
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:16,760
muscle memory.
And by the way, this all applies

447
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,560
to a way you could prepare for
your podcast.

448
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,560
And then what I did was I
handwrote an outline.

449
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,640
And really the outline was more
of like a mind map.

450
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,440
I'm not going to sit and explain
the mind map right now.

451
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,840
Go ahead and Google it or ask
your favorite AI to tell you

452
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,360
more about it.
But what I did was I did it in

453
00:25:34,360 --> 00:25:38,240
sections.
I wrote an act one all on one

454
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:42,240
page with my mind map.
And then I practiced it a lot.

455
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:46,040
I put the paper on like my
kitchen counter and walked

456
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:48,320
around my kitchen as if it were
a stage.

457
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,880
And every once in a while I
would just go back and peek at

458
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:55,200
my mind map to help me remember.
But I did that several times.

459
00:25:56,000 --> 00:26:00,320
And then once I felt like I knew
it fairly well, I didn't perfect

460
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:04,120
it, but once I just felt like,
yeah, those neuro pathways were

461
00:26:04,120 --> 00:26:06,960
being formed.
Then I went and went back and

462
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:09,560
wrote Act 2.
And then I practiced Act 2.

463
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,760
And then again, once I got
comfortable with it, then I

464
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,280
started practicing both acts
together.

465
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,320
And then I do the same for Act 3
and so on.

466
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:21,560
That helps a lot.
And yes, it's it takes some time

467
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:25,520
and it takes some work, but it
sounds, in my opinion, so much

468
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,800
better than just sitting there
and reading a script.

469
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,480
These days.
People are recognizing it.

470
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,160
They are noticing it more than
ever, especially because I think

471
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:38,040
we're so sensitive to AI that
we're really listening to hear

472
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,600
that human element.
Chris, welcome to the stage.

473
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,000
What did you want to add?
Hey, Mark, thanks.

474
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,800
I, I've got to say, Toastmasters
is a good organization.

475
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:51,120
You, you, you've got to find a
good club though, a club that

476
00:26:51,120 --> 00:26:54,840
meets every week and, and I, and
I definitely in person also,

477
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,440
while they're not as easy to
find, and this is kind of

478
00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,920
emotional for me because I
started taking acting classes

479
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:04,080
back in 2005 and the guy was
taken from his in Hospice right

480
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,280
now.
But I never found a group of

481
00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:11,040
people in my life who treated me
better than the people in the

482
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,640
Austin acting community.
I mean, I walked into that

483
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:18,000
studio and I really felt like
that was a place where everybody

484
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,680
was my friend.
I find acting classes just an

485
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,880
amazing.
Therapy cheaper than therapy,

486
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,280
you know?
Just absolutely.

487
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,320
And don't you become a family
like almost instantly It is

488
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,480
built in family.
I, I think it's because you're

489
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,840
always applauding each other and
it does depend on the coach.

490
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,760
The other thing too is I've
noticed is, well, you have to

491
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,160
let people you know, be flexible
and try different things and

492
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,440
take risks.
But one thing is another thing

493
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,200
about a good acting coach.
A good acting coach will read

494
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:50,760
you the riot act if you're late.
But.

495
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:55,040
You'll meet a lot, you'll find a
lot of interesting people, and

496
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:58,600
just you'll learn a lot.
I I definitely can say acting

497
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,840
classes are great.
Toastmasters is good too.

498
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:04,160
Just, you know what, yeah, if
you find a really good club

499
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:06,440
work, they really do try to help
people along.

500
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,280
And yeah, yeah, thank.
You, Chris.

501
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,040
Yeah, yeah, appreciate that.
And I agree with you.

502
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,480
You know, look, that's is all
about sense of community.

503
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:16,520
It those Toastmasters and acting
classes, and I can speak from

504
00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:19,640
the improv experience.
It really is a community.

505
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:22,160
If you like you said, you got to
find the right group and the

506
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,480
right leaders.
Of course, I think that applies

507
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:26,840
to any community that we're
joining.

508
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,240
But yeah, I'm with you there and
thank you for sharing your

509
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,240
experience.
My experience with improv was

510
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,280
not the same at all.
I don't know what it is, but I

511
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,200
always just say I the number of
times I've said acting is not

512
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:40,440
improv, It's not.
No, it's not They are two

513
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,080
different things.
I mean, there's some

514
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,960
similarities, but yes, they are
definitely two different things

515
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,160
and the community, the acting
community will absolutely agree

516
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:49,760
with you there.
I know that they feel very

517
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,400
strongly about that.
Those differences.

518
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:55,000
Look, it's not for everyone,
just like they're I'm probably

519
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,240
there are probably people
listening right now that say the

520
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,280
same about acting classes,
right?

521
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,000
It's just that they're whatever
your preference is.

522
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,520
But yeah, I, I encourage anybody
who wants to improve their

523
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:09,600
speaking skills to consider some
of these things for sure.

524
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,600
Thank you, Chris, Appreciate you
and glad you came up on stage

525
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,760
and shared your experience with
us.

526
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:18,360
OK, Tide, thank you for being so
patient.

527
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:19,520
What did you want to add to
this?

528
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,560
Thank you.
These are really, really great

529
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,040
tips.
And I was just going to say that

530
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:29,400
for me, I have to know that it's
okay to slow my brain down.

531
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:33,040
So in the way that I'm talking
now, there will be some moments

532
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,680
where I'm speaking a lot faster
and then there will be moments

533
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:40,600
where I slow it down like this
so that I can purposely choose

534
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:44,480
each word.
And that really helps me to

535
00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:49,440
process what I am saying and to
hear what I'm saying because the

536
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,640
last thing that I want to do is
listen.

537
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,160
And it happens all the time.
But the last thing I want to do

538
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:59,760
is re listen to my podcast and
say to myself, wow, what were

539
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,040
you saying?
Like, I don't even know what you

540
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:03,840
were saying when you were
talking.

541
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,480
And if I don't even know what
I'm saying when I'm re listening

542
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:12,560
to the recording, that probably
indicates that I'm babbling.

543
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,280
And then I need to slow down.
And then as Ralph said, I need

544
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:20,560
to take a pause.
And it's OK to have a pause

545
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:24,480
because when I think I don't, I
think it was said maybe who had

546
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:27,600
said, you know, not every
sentence has to be said in the

547
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,800
same breath.
And I think that's so true.

548
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:35,240
And when you listen to talk
radio, the people who who do the

549
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:39,760
best in their shows oftentimes
take what I've heard called a

550
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:43,320
radio pause.
And a lot of radio producers,

551
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,200
users didn't like the radio
pause because there was a

552
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:51,000
lingering silence for an
uncomfortable period of time

553
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:54,880
that wasn't super long, like 10
seconds, but it was enough where

554
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,600
you're like, oh, my God, fill
the airspace now.

555
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:57,720
Fill the airspace now.
Yeah.

556
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,600
And I think that a lot of times
I know for me personally, I feel

557
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,960
like, oh, shoot, I got to fill
the airspace with something.

558
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:10,120
And then that's when I start to
word vomit and not say the

559
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,720
things that I actually mean and
want to say.

560
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,320
The other piece that I was just
going to add is I really do work

561
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:20,560
very hard on improving my
vocabulary.

562
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:25,600
So I'm a very, very, very big
reader, love to read and I do

563
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:29,160
like to read some books that are
very challenging in terms of

564
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:33,000
Lexile levels.
And I like to keep a personal

565
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:37,440
dictionary.
I really do take the time that

566
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:40,840
to look up a word.
Sometimes it's a word that I

567
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,360
know and I will look up the
etymology of that word 'cause

568
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,080
I'm an academic at heart, I'm a
teacher.

569
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,960
So that's just kind of part of
my my personality.

570
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:54,200
And what I'll do is I'll look up
the etymology of that word and

571
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,560
then I will look up the
definitions of that word.

572
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,320
So I do take a lot of time to go
over words and the the dividends

573
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:05,800
and the benefits of that have
really been fruitful for me

574
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,560
personally.
And I say that more so coming

575
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,720
from a teacher, a teacher's
perspective, less, less from the

576
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,200
podcasting perspective.
Uh huh.

577
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:16,280
Thank you, Tide, AKA Nikki.
I appreciate that.

578
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:21,640
Yeah, I think when it comes to
reading and all of the different

579
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,480
suggestions you shared around
reading, that's like seed

580
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,160
planting for me, right?
It's prepping you.

581
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:32,560
It's kind of like exercising,
you know, if you want to get in

582
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:34,240
better shape.
It's the same idea.

583
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,600
It's like reading will help you
get in better script reading

584
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:40,040
shape.
So yeah, thank you for that

585
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,120
point.
I appreciate it.

586
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:44,320
Ralph, how about you, Sir?
Yeah, I wanted to go to

587
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,560
something that I learned.
It's really practical and I'm a

588
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:52,080
big user of AI and what I do is
when I've written my script, I

589
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:56,600
tell AI to put this in
teleprompter form and give me

590
00:32:56,600 --> 00:33:02,080
speaking cues, short sentences,
and put it in a way that I would

591
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,480
speak to another human being.
And Mark, that's actually what I

592
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:08,560
use for my practice.
And I have found that to be

593
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:12,760
hugely impactful because it'll
say pause, it'll say raise your

594
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,720
voice, it'll say lower your
voice, it'll say lean in, it'll

595
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:18,520
say lean back.
And working with my speaking

596
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,640
coach, that's the thing that
we've that's sort of become my

597
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:24,320
superpower in that, like Nikki
said, I always felt like I had

598
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,280
to fill the air and I go back
and listen to stuff I recorded

599
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,960
before.
I sort of like I sort of sounded

600
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:32,760
like a air traffic controller or
water Cronkite, I'm not sure

601
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,640
which.
But now that I'm speaking and

602
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:39,000
what's funny about this, Mark,
is it's the way I speak to

603
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,280
people now.
I used to be a real fast talker

604
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,480
and somebody did.
And and finally, it's funny.

605
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,640
One of my clients said the other
day, she goes, Ralph, she says,

606
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:50,080
I see a major change in you.
She says you let things land.

607
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,600
Now she said before like you
would put so much stuff because

608
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:54,960
she goes, you're a really smart
guy.

609
00:33:54,960 --> 00:33:57,040
You know a lot of stuff.
She said, you put it out there

610
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,240
so quick that I didn't have a
chance to grab it and understand

611
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,120
what you were saying.
So I just did it right then.

612
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:06,280
So what I'm finding now is that
you know, you can, you can do

613
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:07,640
this.
Listen, I'm an accountant.

614
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,880
I went to school, I've been
doing accounting for 30 years.

615
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,400
I'm the definition of, yes, you
can do this.

616
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,280
Even if you don't have that
natural core strength set.

617
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,239
Invest in yourself, practice.
You know, one of the things my

618
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,840
speaking coach has me do, she
has me reading children's books.

619
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,480
And because it puts you in a
tone of voice like Once Upon a

620
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,600
time.
So if you are a big UAI user,

621
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:33,199
you can have AI give you the
speaking cues.

622
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:35,960
And Mark, I found that to be
really, really helpful.

623
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:38,600
Yeah, thank you, Ralph.
I appreciate that.

624
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:42,320
And it's nice to hear your
experience as you put it, you

625
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:47,560
know, somebody who is not a an
experienced content creator, at

626
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:49,600
least you weren't coming into it
anyway.

627
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,480
And yeah, I think that that's a
really important point.

628
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,320
Thank you for sharing some of
those tips.

629
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:58,640
You know, for me, I also think
when it comes to reading from a

630
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:02,600
script, energy matters because
people can hear when you're

631
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:06,600
tight or you're flat or you're
overthinking it, right?

632
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:10,000
They can also hear when you're
relaxed and connected to what

633
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,240
you're saying.
Again, I'm going to go back to

634
00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:16,680
the client that I was mentioning
earlier when I was giving her

635
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:21,280
feedback after we went through a
a dry run, if you will.

636
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,080
One of the the most positive
things I shared with her was

637
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,160
with that when she was reading
from her script, she was smiling

638
00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,440
the whole time.
She wasn't doing it

639
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,840
intentionally.
She wasn't realizing that she

640
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,640
was doing it, but what I told
her is I can really hear your

641
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:41,600
smile.
And that that's stopped her and

642
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,240
her Co host for a second because
they were like, oh, that that

643
00:35:44,240 --> 00:35:46,000
was again, another light bulb
moment.

644
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,480
Like, yeah, that's true.
Actually, I now that you say

645
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:53,720
that you can hear a smile.
So I encourage you to practice

646
00:35:53,720 --> 00:35:56,200
that a little bit, right.
Maybe there are times in your

647
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,400
script where smiling isn't
appropriate.

648
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,200
You don't want to sound super
excited if you're talking about

649
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:06,640
something, say sad or serious,
but it does convey something

650
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:11,000
people can pick up on the vibe.
So I encourage that as well.

651
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,200
And, and one other thing I'll
say is, is that if you're going

652
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:19,280
to use a script, use it as a
guide, but don't use it where

653
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:21,280
you're feeling caged in right
there.

654
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:25,360
There is something to that.
Sometimes the best delivery

655
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:29,680
happens when I just glance at
the script, because then I can

656
00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,280
just grab the idea and say it a
little more naturally in the

657
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:37,280
moment.
So outlines serve me really well

658
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:43,480
in that kind of scenario because
I do struggle if I have a full

659
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,720
script in front of me, I
struggle with veering off script

660
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:51,000
because then I'm afraid I'm
going to lose my place and start

661
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,600
to stumble.
And to the points we've made

662
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,920
earlier, not as big of a deal if
you're recording because you can

663
00:36:56,920 --> 00:37:00,520
go back and fix that.
But for a show like ours that we

664
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:06,440
record live, as they used to
say, live to tape, I think I,

665
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,120
it's, it's something that I have
to practice.

666
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,920
Yes, Ralph, go ahead.
And then we got to get into wins

667
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:12,600
from the week.
Yeah.

668
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,880
And I just want to trumpet what
you just said because one of the

669
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:18,600
things that's really helped me
is being on this show, because

670
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:22,040
this is not scripted.
And when you work in a live

671
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:25,560
environment, you will learn
skills that you don't realize

672
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,480
you have.
And they were super useful to

673
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,800
you, Mark.
So that's, I just want to

674
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:32,960
trumpet that because that is a
very brilliant point that you

675
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,520
just brought out there.
That has been what has made me

676
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:37,880
grow more than anything else.
So I want to thank the community

677
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,880
for that because it's, it's
challenging me like I, I don't

678
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,160
have a script in front of me
right now while I'm talking.

679
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,200
And to be honest with you, when
I first started on the show, it

680
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:48,280
made me very nervous because I
had gotten to this point where

681
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:51,560
everything I did was scripted.
So Mark, I just want to say

682
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,360
that's a very good point.
So even listen, even if you just

683
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:58,000
go into and and put the recorder
down and just give yourself a

684
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:01,480
question and just start talking,
that's one of the exercises that

685
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,040
I was doing every day for a
while.

686
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,440
I would just go in and record 10
minutes of me just talking about

687
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,120
a particular topic, no script.
It really refines your skill

688
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:10,560
set.
I love that.

689
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:12,640
Thank you.
And I'm just going to wrap it up

690
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,560
with this.
If there's nothing else you walk

691
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:21,040
away with from this part of the
conversation, at least walk away

692
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:25,160
with the idea of practicing out
loud because you'll hear it.

693
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:27,440
You'll start to hear it.
If you do this for every

694
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:31,800
podcast, if you go through your
script a few times out loud,

695
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,280
you'll start to notice the
improvements.

696
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,480
You'll start to notice the
changes, the evolution in how

697
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,680
you deliver your script.
So I encourage you and if you

698
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,920
can tolerate it, because I know
a lot of podcasters, even though

699
00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:48,240
we record all the time, we can't
always tolerate our own voice.

700
00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:52,040
But what I would say is do your
best and go back and listen,

701
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,720
record those practice runs and
then go back and listen and ask

702
00:38:55,720 --> 00:38:57,760
yourself, did this sound like I
was reading?

703
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,760
And look at you're not going to
be perfect at it right out of

704
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,760
the gate.
But if you can hear those

705
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:07,040
improvements as you practice, I
think you're going to get more

706
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:09,480
excited about the idea of
practicing.

707
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:14,880
It's time for wins from the
week.

708
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,560
So let's dive into that.
It's Friday and that's what we

709
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,880
do to wrap up our Fridays.
We wrap up Friday and the week

710
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:29,000
with sharing community wins.
So I will set the bar here.

711
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,920
I will set the pace is the
better way to put it and share

712
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,880
just a couple of mine and then
we will go down the line.

713
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,880
But listen, we've got a nice
full house here in the audience

714
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,040
come up if you want to share any
of your wins from this week.

715
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,080
It doesn't all have to be
podcast related.

716
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,640
I'll give you bonus points if it
is, but it does not have to be

717
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:55,360
podcast related for me.
Here are my wins.

718
00:39:55,360 --> 00:40:00,760
One is I made it through a full
week of shows after missing the

719
00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,440
past two Mondays.
Not this one, but the 1-2 prior

720
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:07,760
in a row so.
And again, thanks to the team

721
00:40:07,760 --> 00:40:11,680
for always holding down the Fort
for me when I need it.

722
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,360
Another win I would say is
podcast on yesterday's episode

723
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:22,960
really touched me.
It was also for me as your host,

724
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,000
it was a nice change of pace.
It was a way that we could

725
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:32,040
really not only support these
important organizations that we

726
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:35,960
like to support, but it was also
a wonderful way to get to know

727
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,880
each other even more on a deeper
level.

728
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,280
So thank you to all of you who
participated.

729
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,840
And by the way, if you missed it
or you want to go back and

730
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:48,880
support one of the organizations
that we shared yesterday, go to

731
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:54,040
podcastingmorningchat.com/charity
and you can see all the ones

732
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,880
listed that were shared,
including people from our

733
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,760
audience that came up and shared
as well.

734
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:03,880
Ralph took care of that
yesterday and added those there.

735
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:09,000
So for example, Tim, we added a
link to support multiple

736
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,520
sclerosis.
So we tried to hit everybody.

737
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:15,800
I think Janae also had one to
support Islam, right?

738
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,880
So we we put that in there.
So yeah, go support these

739
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,600
different organizations.
And by the way, Ralph, I'm just

740
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:25,000
thinking out loud here.
We should probably put a link to

741
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,520
that show on that page to the
show that we did.

742
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,320
I think that's a great idea.
Mark Yeah.

743
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:34,400
So we will do that as well so
people can easily find that

744
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:38,800
show.
A last win is Ralph joining the

745
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:42,360
team as officially as Co
executive producer.

746
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:49,360
That is a huge win for me.
It is a load off my shoulders

747
00:41:49,840 --> 00:41:52,640
because Ralph is really going to
help me a lot with the behind

748
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,440
the scenes and let's be real,
already has.

749
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:00,040
So a huge win for me and I
believe for the community as

750
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:03,520
well.
OK, who would like to share a

751
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:07,360
win or two with the group?
And if you don't, I'm just going

752
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,920
to go down, down the line.
Actually, here's what I'm going

753
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:11,520
to do.
John from the audience has

754
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,200
joined us on stage.
Let's go to John first.

755
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:16,200
Good morning, John, welcome to
the stage.

756
00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:20,360
Please share a win with us.
Hello everyone, well the first

757
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,440
win is finding this show in the
community and I want to thank

758
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:27,880
Ralph for that.
The second win is knowing when

759
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,720
to walk away.
I had some technical issues with

760
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:35,600
my Rd. caster pro and I Rd.
caster duo have a couple of them

761
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,840
and at one point I had none of
them working and I was on the

762
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:44,920
call with tech support and I
finally just had to walk away

763
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,280
because I've tried so many
things.

764
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,840
Your head's spinning, just walk
away, take a break from it, come

765
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:54,120
back with fresh, you know,
attitude.

766
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,680
And within 5 minutes I had
everything fixed.

767
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,520
And then the third one is to
give yourself grace.

768
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:04,720
Every show I do is live.
It's not really scripted, it's

769
00:43:04,720 --> 00:43:07,120
bullet points and you're going
to mess up.

770
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:09,040
And you know what?
Everybody messes up.

771
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:12,880
So give yourself grace, make a
joke out of it, don't freak out.

772
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:16,920
So they're my wins.
Oh also, you know the community

773
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,680
here, you guys tell me things.
I'm like, oh, why didn't I think

774
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,720
of that?
That's a great idea.

775
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:25,560
So being able to do that,
incorporate that is they're my

776
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,080
wins.
Thank you, John.

777
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:30,280
I will also add a win and it's
that you've joined our

778
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:32,600
community.
So thank you for sharing that.

779
00:43:32,600 --> 00:43:36,640
I am so glad that you're already
finding it really valuable and

780
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:39,400
please keep coming back.
You're welcome to join the stage

781
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,560
at any time if you want to add.
And I really appreciate your

782
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:44,080
wins.
You definitely earned the bonus

783
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,960
points because you really went
all in on the podcasting wins.

784
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,120
So I appreciate that.
And you knowing when to walk

785
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,720
away, I think is such a an
important point for all of us to

786
00:43:53,720 --> 00:43:57,680
take away today because, yeah, I
think one of the best parts of

787
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:02,040
walking away is it allows your
head to just kind of reset and

788
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:06,120
reorganize and then you have a
new fresh perspective going back

789
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:07,920
to it.
And I'm glad that that worked so

790
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,960
well for you.
And yeah, giving yourself grace.

791
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,560
Yeah, we all mess up.
And I think it's more

792
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,280
appreciated now than ever before
those mess ups.

793
00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:20,680
Thanks John.
What is the name of your

794
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,840
podcast?
I actually have two.

795
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,480
One is called the Boomer Bunker
and the other one is called

796
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,960
Brandex.
Brandex we do once a month,

797
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,160
three friends from college.
We get together, we day drink

798
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,760
and we eat lunch.
So that's just a pleasure

799
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,760
project and it really should be
a phone call.

800
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,880
But you know what?
We record it and we've been

801
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:42,480
doing Brandex since 2016.
We took a four year break, we

802
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,640
came back to it.
And then the other one is the

803
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,200
Boomer Bunker.
I'm going to have to warn

804
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:50,920
everybody it's a very not
politically non correct show and

805
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:52,680
it's definitely not for
children.

806
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,920
So if you have, if your
sensibilities get insulted, it's

807
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:58,680
not the show for you.
But we have a lot of fun with

808
00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,680
it.
We do it twice a week.

809
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,560
We live stream at 6:30 PM
Eastern Time.

810
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,480
We live stream it on Mondays and
Thursdays.

811
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,160
And listen, I'm retired.
I podcast for fun.

812
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:14,160
I've been doing it since 2012.
I was more of a podcast editor

813
00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,520
for a long time and I just
really enjoy it.

814
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:21,280
And but I wanted to sound like
like a broadcast show.

815
00:45:21,720 --> 00:45:24,600
And that's my main, you know, my
main consideration when I do

816
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:25,920
this.
Love it.

817
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,840
Great question.
Thank you for asking that, Dr.

818
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,440
And yeah, John, thank you for
sharing.

819
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:34,600
Thank you for diving into this
community and come in every

820
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:36,480
morning.
It's good to have you here.

821
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:39,920
And again, you're welcome on
stage anytime as any of you are

822
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,440
here live on Clubhouse.
And by the way, again, if you

823
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,840
want to learn how to be a part
of the Clubhouse community, let

824
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:47,960
me find the right links and
where to go.

825
00:45:48,240 --> 00:45:52,800
Just go to
podcastingmorningchat.com/join

826
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,480
us.
Yes, that's the one.

827
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,520
And there was one other thing I
wanted to say about the whole

828
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,840
giving yourself grace.
Oh, when I was saying everyone

829
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:04,600
messes up and it's needed now
more than ever, I would.

830
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:10,320
I'm referring to the fact that
AI has been so overwhelming that

831
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,640
I think now people are looking
for the mess up and breathing

832
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,360
that sigh of relief when they
hear it because they're saying,

833
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,120
OK, that is a human.
It goes a long way.

834
00:46:20,240 --> 00:46:23,480
Thank you, John, appreciate you.
Anyone else want to share wins?

835
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:27,160
Ralph, I'll come to you, but I
want to hear from Dr. Sid, BC,

836
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,880
etcetera.
So I'll first go to you, Ralph.

837
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:31,960
Go ahead.
Yeah, So my win is definitely

838
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,760
being a more active party here
on the community chat here.

839
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,000
So thank you for that second big
win.

840
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:39,080
Is John joining us?
That was great that that John

841
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:41,080
reached out and said, hey, how
do I get on the clubhouse?

842
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,680
That was fantastic.
My third win is actually kind of

843
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:46,480
cool.
This week I got featured on pod

844
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,400
news twice and that was really
cool.

845
00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:52,880
I wrote an article and if you're
a content creator about tips, so

846
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,520
go check that out on pod news.
But that was really cool that

847
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:58,400
that James Cridland featured me
twice on pod news.

848
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,640
So that's my wins of the week.
I got one more.

849
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:02,160
I'm sorry it's not podcast
related.

850
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,840
During the show 2 weeks ago my
office receptionist texted me

851
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,040
that she was quitting by text,
which was not a great time in

852
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,400
the middle of tax season.
But yesterday afternoon I hired

853
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,160
somebody new, so relief is on
the way.

854
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,600
So thank you for letting me
share those wins today.

855
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:20,520
Ralph, remind me, what was the
third win you shared?

856
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,880
That I just had hired a new
person because I had somebody

857
00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,160
quit in the Middle Attack,
right?

858
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,960
Before that, sorry.
Oh, being on POD News featured

859
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,160
twice on POD.
Yeah, and actually featured 3

860
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:32,960
times in two weeks.
That's very true.

861
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:35,600
Actually, yeah, I actually got
to the point where James says,

862
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:39,160
and here's Ralph Estep again.
And, and it's funny because

863
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,800
yesterday I'm a member of the
Podcast Professionals

864
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,560
Association.
When I joined the call, somebody

865
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,160
says, Ralph, you're everywhere.
Are you cloning yourself now?

866
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:48,600
I said.
Yeah, I got to get some sleep.

867
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,480
You and Jim Carrey.
OK.

868
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,240
Thank you, Ralph.
Appreciate that.

869
00:47:53,240 --> 00:47:54,720
All right, Dr. I'm coming to
you.

870
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,440
Share or win?
I have one.

871
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,400
I have one.
Everyone does.

872
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:00,880
I'm glad you found yours.
Go ahead.

873
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,960
Yeah, I don't get the extra
points for podcast related, but

874
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,600
OK.
So in Nashville about, I guess,

875
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,440
six weeks ago, we had a huge ice
storm.

876
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:18,400
And up until yesterday,
everyone's lawn was full of

877
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,920
trees and limbs and debris and
that they had just shoved to the

878
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,760
edge of their lawn.
It was finally picked up

879
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:32,080
yesterday and it just feels.
So when I open the door now,

880
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:36,400
it's like I can see the person
across the street from me

881
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:40,560
because these piles were so high
and so intrusive.

882
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,560
And so it prevented us from
moving forward.

883
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,960
And so now.
It's paved the way for spring.

884
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:49,240
It's paved.
Yes.

885
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:53,000
Yes, I know that feeling.
It's like it's the same idea as,

886
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,720
you know, when your house has
been messy and you've cleaned up

887
00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:59,040
everything, it's that you get
breathe that sigh of relief.

888
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:00,720
Yeah.
And it feels so good.

889
00:49:00,720 --> 00:49:01,480
Yeah.
I get it.

890
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,480
I get it.
Thank you, Dr. Thanks for

891
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,880
sharing a win with us, BC.
I'm coming to you and then Sid,

892
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,600
you're on deck.
Go ahead BC.

893
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:13,480
OK, so wins for the week.
I would have to say nothing

894
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:17,400
monumental has occurred, so I
will just say that I am

895
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:23,280
continuing to truck along and
try really hard to build a

896
00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:25,760
career for myself.
I am, as you and Ralph saw

897
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:29,440
yesterday, looking for full time
work, looking for some

898
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,440
consistencies.
So I'm open to new ventures, but

899
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:37,080
other than that I'm still
working with several avenues to

900
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:38,760
build something a bit more
unique.

901
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:43,080
So I guess my win for the week
is just not giving up yet.

902
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,680
And congratulations for putting
yourself out there, putting the

903
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:50,440
word out that you are available
for hire.

904
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:54,960
And yeah, BC you want to just
share quickly what kind of work

905
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,760
you're looking for.
Man, I've got such a pretty

906
00:49:57,760 --> 00:50:02,200
broad background when it comes
to nonprofit and for profit

907
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,360
communications.
Marketing works, so anything

908
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:09,560
that involves overseeing A-Team,
we're helping to coordinate.

909
00:50:09,600 --> 00:50:13,160
You know, good large scale
products for nonprofit or for

910
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:17,040
profit would be ideal for me.
I've just been all over the

911
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:21,200
place, so I bring a pretty
varied background to whatever

912
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,040
team I get to be on.
Awesome.

913
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:27,240
Congratulations, BCI, Know that
yeah, you have a lot going on

914
00:50:27,240 --> 00:50:30,400
and it's good to see that you're
you're exploring the different

915
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:34,960
avenues to make it happen.
So kudos to you and Sid, my

916
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,600
friend, you are.
Unless someone comes up on

917
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:40,960
stage, you are our final win
sharer of the week.

918
00:50:40,960 --> 00:50:43,000
So go for it my friend.
Yeah.

919
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:47,480
So my win for the week is a
personal one.

920
00:50:47,480 --> 00:50:49,920
My son Jackson is home for a few
days for some.

921
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,200
He's been home since he went
back to school in January.

922
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,960
So it's nice to have him here
and to catch up on all things

923
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:58,560
going on with him.
So that is my win for the week.

924
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:03,760
Love it and enjoy your time with
him Yeah I'm I'm going to be

925
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:07,600
visiting my family next week and
get to see one of our kids next

926
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:10,600
week as well.
So yeah, I I feel and share the

927
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,600
excitement with you also, Tim.
Yeah, I'm.

928
00:51:14,080 --> 00:51:17,760
Sorry, your stepson, Matthew.
Yes.

929
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:22,000
His content is really good you
should tell him that like his

930
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,920
content is really good.
I enjoy watching him cook for

931
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:28,600
his roommates so I love it.
Thank you for sharing you.

932
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,240
You re share those.
That's how it shows up on my

933
00:51:30,240 --> 00:51:33,320
TikTok so.
Yes, well, give him a follow.

934
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,080
And I think I started, I think I
did actually, I think I started

935
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,720
following.
But I really enjoy his cooking

936
00:51:37,720 --> 00:51:39,880
content.
So tell him he's doing a good

937
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:41,360
job and to keep it.
Up I love it.

938
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:43,240
I love it.
I will tell him that, Sid,

939
00:51:43,240 --> 00:51:45,440
that's awesome.
And yes, if you want to follow

940
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,840
my stepson, he does all sorts of
cooking videos.

941
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:52,120
And yeah, like Sid said, one of
the big angles with his content

942
00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:56,000
is that he cooks for his
roommates every Sunday.

943
00:51:56,000 --> 00:51:58,840
And then he records the whole
prep and everything.

944
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,120
And he's doing quite well at it.
And you can follow him on

945
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:07,760
Instagram at Matthew B Cooks.
I don't have his TikTok up in

946
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,040
front of me, but I think his
Instagram is actually doing even

947
00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:14,320
better than the TikTok.
And all I'll say is this, Sid,

948
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:19,520
he's doing really well at it.
And he's been, I have to be

949
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:23,360
really careful.
He's been noticed by an

950
00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:30,040
extremely large content creator,
meaning popularly large.

951
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,600
That's all I can say.
There's a lot more behind that

952
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:36,360
to come on that and it's and
it's been in place right now.

953
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,240
What's going on?
What's that?

954
00:52:38,720 --> 00:52:40,440
It's like an NDA or something in
place.

955
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:41,760
Right now.
There's an NDA.

956
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:44,120
There's an NDA in.
Place right now.

957
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,960
Wow.
So I you can only imagine as a

958
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:51,680
content creator of 20 years how
proud and excited I am and how

959
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,960
frustrating it's been not to
tell you all about this.

960
00:52:55,440 --> 00:53:00,520
I've been chomping at the bit to
share and I still can't, but I

961
00:53:00,520 --> 00:53:04,640
have a feeling over the next,
well, more is supposed to

962
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,800
develop over the next week or
two and hopefully I will have

963
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:11,640
more to share.
Follow my stepson Matthew B the

964
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,840
letter B cooks.
All right gang, we are back

965
00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:20,000
Monday 7:00 AM Eastern talking
all things podcasting with our

966
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:26,960
new series coming up, Money
Monday by Ralph E Step and again

967
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,080
I will be there as well, but
Ralph as our money guy will help

968
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,240
lead the charge.
Ralph, did you want to add

969
00:53:32,240 --> 00:53:35,120
something before we wrap?
I just want to add one thing if

970
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,640
you are getting.
Value from the show one of the

971
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,120
ways you can give back value is
to go to support the show we

972
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:44,360
actually added buy me a coffee
now this isn't a physical coffee

973
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,760
but it's a way for everybody to
support the show you can go to

974
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:52,240
podcastingmorningchat.com/support
you'll see the little icon there

975
00:53:52,240 --> 00:53:55,280
on all the websites so that's a
great way to help support the

976
00:53:55,280 --> 00:53:58,360
cost of the show again, that's
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977
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,440
chat.com/support so thank you
for letting me throw that in

978
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,840
there mark thank you for
throwing it in I appreciate it

979
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,520
so remember we're.
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980
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:11,520
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981
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:16,000
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